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writes:I broke up with him and now i'm really sad. at school he doesn't seem to mind that we broke up, he even seems happy about it, but after school my texts my cousin alot cussing her out and blaming her for us breaking up. she doesn't like him so he assumes she was the one to convince me to break up with him. :( i still really like him but he doesn't make anytime for me. I asked my friend about what she thought and she made me feel bad for wanting him to hang out with me. She says i need to get over it because i can't change him and it's wrong to try. I just don't know what to do anymore. I really like him but if i only see him about three times a week i don't know how it's going to work. But when i am with him i am really happy. A couple weeks ago i thought for sure i was falling in love with him and was scared to death, and now he's not in my life and im miserable. any advice?
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reader, ManAfterChrist +, writes (21 April 2010):
 When my ex and I broke up, I felt like my world ended. Everything was miserable. But, I am now SO happy that we ended, my life would not be as good now if we were still together. If you weren't 100% happy, and were settling for him in any way, there is a better man out there. View this as a positive, not a negative. Think of all the new opportunities you have, chances to meet new people. Soon enough, you will be feeling great. Don't forget the good times you had, but it is over now. *Most* couples that have broken up broke up for a reason, and getting back together doesn't fix the original problem.I know that's not really "advice" per say, but I hope it helps. Chin up, you have a lot of life full of other twists and turns ahead of you!
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