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anonymous
writes:well i been with a guy for 1 year and a half, and i lost his trust a while ago, he cheated on me with my freind, and that messed ur our relationship since then, i have doubts about him doing the same thing now, he promises me hes not that he only loves me but idk if i should belive me, we talk eveyday and i never noticed anything but plz i need help... does he cheat on me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): im in almost the exact same situation (except my bf and i are gay). he is my boyfriend for a year, and he told me he slept with one other guy and fooled around with another. he even lied to my my face about it when they happend and when i questioned where he was. (this happend 3 months ago, and he barely told me today). just like u, i dont trust him anymore. But, what ive learned is, once a cheater always a cheater. once a liar, always a liar. I think what is best for both of us to do is admit that these guys we are dating are cheaters. nothing will change them, no matter what they say. They dont appreciate what we have given to them, and use us. Im breaking up with my bf soon, and suggest that you do the same. Theres so many other guys out there, one who can appreciate u for who u are.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (22 April 2010):
 Once a cheater, always a cheater.
There are men out there who won't cheat on you.
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reader, Xtina356 +, writes (22 April 2010):
I agree with Nice Gurl completely. If you can't trust the person you are with, then what's the point? You're too young to have to go to bed at night worrying if he's cheating on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): If he cheated on you with your own friend then he clearly does not love you. Sure you forgave him but at the end of the day that can only make him tempted to do it again. These trust issues must be stressing you out but a man like him is really not worth it, so just end your agony and move on. Like NiceGurl says there are 3 billion other men in the world, just put a cross next to his name ;) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): Because you are here asking complete strangers if your suspicion that a historical cheater, in your age group, is currently cheating, my answer to your question is: YES!!!
There are over 3 billion men in the world. Every man is upgradable, and mathematically, at an amazingly fast rate.
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