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Is he just using me for sex?

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Question - (21 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay basically; im in a relationship with a boy who iReally love. iLost my virginity to him which makes the situation more complex. He is impatient and takes things a bit too literally when he knows iDont mean it. iReally want to be with him but things are not working out how iWant them to. iGive him his space when he needs it and we generally sort out any problems we have. iThought he was cheating once; but was proved wrong. Sometimes iThink he is just using me for sex though. He never came to see me on our anniversary; iDont know what to do. Please Can iHave some advice please?

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A female reader, marie-joan United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2010):

hey girl,

i used to have this boyfriend who used me for sex non-stop, if not sex then i had to sext him, talk dirty to him on the phone or send pictures of myself to him. If i wouldn't do this he would refuse to talk to me until i did.

I lost my virginity to him and i seriously thought i would spend forever with him. One thing you can do is talk to him about your feelings and if he doesn't change then you don't need him. You don't need a guy who will just use you for sex because you are better than that. So try talking to him but if he doesn't change dump him. Stay positive i'm sure you are an amazing beautiful girl who deserves the best :)

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A female reader, msjuicy United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

msjuicy agony auntThe only thing I can tell you sweety stop having sex with him to see how he would react

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