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writes:Ok, so I just turned 14 and I believe I am in love with someone I simply can't get off my mind. I want to know if this is a real feeling, or just my mind playing with me again. But this time around its such a different feeling, I just dont know what to do about it. This guy is 18 and just graduated from High School. When I'm around him I start to feel weak inside and no matter what mood I'm in before as soon as I am in his presence, a delightful high comes over me and I end up on cloud 9. Is it real?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): ommg I know exactly what your talking about! If you feel everytime you listen to a love song like "crush" by david arch. You feel like you wanna cry and be with that person so bad than what can tell you ITS LOVE! I can really relay cause this moment I cnt get my mind to a point without thinking about him. He likes me and I like him but we are so long distance from each other that it hurts not being with him. I even CRY when I think about him because can't be with him. So trustme I know what your going through but WORSE. I guess true love you just kinda know deep down in your heart.:)
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reader, compuzzled_chick  +, writes (10 June 2009):
 I think it's just another crush, to be honest. I know it really seems bad, but coming from someone your age, I thought I was in love before but just two days ago I realise that I like someone else. I know you're going to HATE hearing this just as much as I do... but it's probably hormones. Eugh, I hate saying it more than I hate hearing it, but that's what being a teenager is.
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reader, ?-lululette-? +, writes (10 June 2009):
?-lululette-? is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok, only one person gave an honest and helpful answer. i think that you people that dont live in or like america should stop stereotyping us teens as naive or anything like that because thats rude and inconsiderate. i am involved with this person to a certain extent and i came to realize i lovr him deeply. he wont be marked as a pediphile or anything like that unless my parents choose to press charges but my parents care about my happiness and are qorried for my safety but arent going to act crazy on me unless i give them a reason to. which i wont lol. but i thank the ones that take me seriously because i am way more mature than most would like to take me for. but thank you again to the ones who give kind advice for helping me realize my feelings are stromg and true :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): This guy is way too old for you. He will be branded a pedophile and be put in jail if anything happened between you two. So if you really 'love' him, leave him alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): It might be too soon to feel love for this person. However, that does not mean that he does not have potential. That feeling might be that he has a lot of potential of being someone great in your life. Remember, takes things slow if you really want things to work out. Rushing into anything, even just a kiss, is not the best thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): If you aren't involved with him and don't know him too well then it's just a crush/infatuation or hormones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): It's a crush
Your young naive
Just move on to someone thats more in ur age group
Your gonna get hurt if you persist in this.
You american teens should focus on ur studies and stop wondering about these little dumb things.
Stay a virgin
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Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Love is not defined by butterflies, feelings of weakness, and the inability to get one off of your mind. Sounds a bit more like a crush my dear.
Love is just love.. and I believe it to be a strong enough feeling that is easily identified.
The question to ask yourself is:
would you do ANYTHIGN for him? Would you go out of your way to make him happy, disregaurding your own happiness? ANd then not tell him you went out of your way? Would be able to live with this mna, love everything about him and accept the negative things about him? Can you compromise with him, get passed arguement and still feel the same way about him at the end of the day? Do you listen to him and repsect what he tells you not because you are easily ordered, but becuase his happiness is important to you?
There is so much more to love then what you have described here. It's more than just physical feelings. It's a state of mind... A whole new state of mind.
~SY.
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