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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My perfect guy: He's smart and opinionated, good looking and not afraid to take control, the ultimate Alpha male but at the same time is sweet and sensitive, always making sure Im comfortable and happy......the one thing standing in the way of making it official? He is reluctant to commit to a relationship because he is afraid what might happen if he gets attached and it fails. I've fallen head over heels for this guy and have gotten to know him fairly well, he's everything I could ever imagine and more. He sincerly wants to see me happy and I think he is worth the wait but how do I show him its ok to take that step? If neither of us are commiting to others but cannot commit to each other, where does that leave us? Reply to this Question
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reader, holikdad  +, writes (9 June 2009):
Blowing in the wind, if he doesn't commit then you'll need to find someone else who fits your criteria for the perfect guy.
No amount of words or actions will make someone commit if they're not ready or going to.
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