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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: My ex and I had an on and off relationship after the first 5 months of dating. I treated hims os good and he just seemed so unappreciative.On May 13 we hung out, slept together (pretty typical) and then he said he would come over the next night to hang out, stay the night, etc. Next morning I texted him to make sure we where still on for the evening. I heard nothing. Texted again couple hours later, nothing. Later that night I sent another saying thanks, couldnt even reply a yes or no as asked. Nothing!He went m.i.a which he has never done before. It hurt me so bad. I left it alone. Nothing more to be said. On June 2 he texted after almost 3 weeks of silence, saying he hoped me and my kids where well. Then on the 7th sent another saying he was thinking of me and hoping life was treating me well. Like shit changed so drastically in 3 weeks! I've not responded to either. Does he forget what he did? What the hell is trying to do? Advice, insight please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): On and off and disappearing on you could mean there is another woman in the picture. In any case, he doesn't sound like he wants a serious relationship with you anyway.
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reader, holikdad +, writes (9 June 2009):
He was probably just using you for the sex. It's good that you didn't answer his text, and the next time he comes knocking at your door tell him to take his penis elsewhere or go home and play with Rosy.
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