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writes:My ex gf is 3 months pregnant she told me she loved me next day she dumped me saying she cannot stand being with me and its not because she is pregnant well that hurt so i accepted it but said i want to see our baby when born and go to the scan she was fine with that when a couple of days before the scan i asked her what time to meet she told me 3 hours later she said she has been the scan and it is not mine so i dont need to contact her then i asked for midwifes number she said she did not know it and she was getting rid of the baby, it nearly destroyed me, i cannot understand why she is like this, i have treated her well but since becoming pregnant she has become a different person and just seems to want to hurt me i dont know what to do. Can hormones be that bad?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): In the UK it is perfectly legal to have an abortion up to 24 weeks - 6 months pregnant. Just wanted to clear that up.
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reader, holikdad  +, writes (9 June 2009):
Yep, hormones can be that bad. Luckily my wife wasn't like that when she was pregnant, but I've heard horror stories.
She's three months pregnant so abortion is out of the question at this time. Which means if she wants to get rid of the baby then she'll have to put it up for adoption. Get a lawyer right now. Don't worry about how she's treating you there are TONS of other women out there. If you want that baby then you're going to have to fight for it so start the process now. Speak to a lawyer and see what your options are with the laws of your country.
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