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writes:I've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks now. I'm not sure where we stand though. I dont know if he thinks of me as his gf or just someone he's dating or what? I dont know if we are 'exclusive' or not?He says things to me like 'your my baby, your my girl' and we always hold hands in public and hug. We talk every single day and see each other about 4 times a week. And he always kisses me goodbye and hello. We havent gone any further then that. And I def do not want too until we have been in a relationship for a while.I just want to know what we are...He is really keen to meet my parents and family. And his parents live in a different town and hes always saying how one day we should drive to his parents place together to see them. Do you think he's serious about me but just hasnt said so in exact words? We both have facebook and our relationship status' both say single still.
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reader, holikdad  +, writes (9 June 2009):
You've been dating three weeks and you're looking for some sort of commitment. I think you need to relax, you really don't even know each other yet. He could be an axe murderer for all you know and you're looking for a solid commitment from him.One of the problems with people today is that they want to jump into every relationship like this is the person I'm going to marry. The whole point of having relationships is so that you can finally find someone that will make you happy, after weeding out all the garbage that's out there.You're not in a sexual relationship with him so at least he's not using you as a booty call so RELAX and see what happens and stop over stressing wondering why he hasn't been trying to jam an engagement ring on your finger or made some other kind of permanent commitment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Well honey we can't tell you that honestly.
And this is not a subject that you should be unsure about. Because every relationship needs to set boudaries. You wouldn't want to go out wiht someone else and he called is cheating but you don't becuase you didn't think you were officially exclusive.
You just have to have "the talk" with him.
You know.. the
"what are we to each other?";
"If someone else asked you out, would you feel free to go?" talk.
It's not very difficult, although it may sound it.
But none of us here can give you a "yes" or a "no."
Goodluck. I hope you get the answer you want!
~SY.
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