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I prefer her sister to her!

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Question - (9 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *amie999 writes:

I met this girl through a friend and we started texting each other but her sister got my number and now she says she loves me and I have met them both but I just want her sister to forget me but i dont know how to tell her without hurting her feelings and without her sister thinking im a jerk.

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (9 June 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntKeep the sister at arm's length. Be polite but no more than that. Don't text her unless it's absolutely necessary.

If the sister doesn't give up tell her politely that you are interested in her sister and you two can only be friends. Then stick to that.

I doubt there is any way to avoid hurting her feelings, but you can keep the damage to a minimum by being honest and kind.

Good luck.

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A female reader, shaniquas3 United States +, writes (9 June 2009):

if her sister(the one that got the number somehow)started just texting you knowing that her sister liked you first then that just shows that she is a back stabber and is willing to do anything to hurt her sisters feelings..i think that you should talk to the one you talk to at first and forget the other sister..in my opinion.but lets face it your not going to do that.but if you really like hte second(backstabber)sister better i think you should tell the other sister that you like her sister and face the music if you are really that into her..MAKE SURE U GIVE US AN UPDATE AND RATE ME..thank you and i hope everything works out for the best:)

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