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writes:Basically, to cut a long story short..I have fallen for my fuck buddy! It all started off since he is in my group of friends at uni and we have always flirted.. then about 3 weeks ago, we had sex and since then it has been all the time.. But we cuddle, we spend days together,he cooks me dinner.. i found out that he told his best friend he does like me,so its all a bit confusing,not just sex. I've been giving nothing away and I'm just treating it as fun but I realised that I actually do like him so much more. I go home next week for 3 weeks and I'm not sure what to do :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Make use of the break to think things over...that's what you should do.
If you want to be more than friends and think he feels similarly then tell him. If he does in fact like you he may have been waiting to move things further because he's under the impression you are just in it for the sex.
If he doesn't, you know not to waste your time sleeping with a guy who makes you want more but won't let you have it. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Tell him how you feel! He seems to be returning the likeness favour of cooking you meals and spending so much time with you. I dont know anything about fuck buddies but I am sure its just a case of sex and leave or something like that. Anyway before you go home I think you should tell him how you feel. If you dont want to tell him too soon wait till after the 3 weeks are over and you come back to spend more time with him.Whatever way you choose I think you should ask him out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009):
sometimes we find the best things in the places we least expect.
If it feels right then I would go with it.
good luck
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