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I'm terrible with girls

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Question - (9 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

(Mod Note: Questions have been merged.)

1. I have a problem. I have a crush on my niece. Wait, let me explain =) She's the daughter of my stepbrother, though he adopted her. She's really pretty (and 20), has a great sense of humor, great taste in underwear =), what should i do?

2. (Apparently) I also kissed my niece! We both like each other and I didn't mean to do it. It was just a romantic moment; she liked it and she wants to start going out. What should i do? (Not related by blood) (She's 18 years old and i'm 17)

3. I can not for the life of me get a girlfriend and I was thinking about dating guys. What should I do and is there a dating website i could go to for girls or guys?

4. I have terrible luck with girls. I've been rejected 27 times. I like this girl, Emma, and i need some terrific advice.

P.S. I don't see her often (no school, remember), but i do talk to her on myspace

5. Lastly, I have a friend who's dating a 19 year old babe, but he is only 16. I heard it was illegal for them to date, what should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009):

wow, i can't believe they combined all these questions into one thing! Not all of them were about me! Only 1, 3, and 5 were actually mine! I don't know who the hell the other ones belong to! #1 was recent and the others were older. Also, nickieausgr, no, I don't say anything bad. To Doodles: She and i get along real well, i don't how it could get akward. My family is very stupid sometimes when it comes to stuff like this =) (that was a joke about the family)

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A female reader, doodles362 United Kingdom +, writes (9 June 2009):

doodles362 agony aunt1&2. Blood family or not, there's consequences and resposibilties with this. What if it doesn't work? Then it's awkward with the family as apposed to someone you'll never see again.

3. Match.com is a great way of meeting other people, but you have to be 18. So try teenspot.com it's a free safe teenage chat room with mods.

4. As for being rejected by girls, it happens to all guys around your age, just get to know the girl first, but not to well you don't want to be stuck in the "friend zone".

5. If he is 16 then it's not illegal. He's legal to have sex so can date anyone over that age without it being illegal. I don't think you should get involved in your mates love life and start consentrating on you own!

Hope this helps

Best Regards

Doodles x

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (9 June 2009):

mimisoph3 agony aunti dont think theres a problem in dating a niece but i'm sure it would be weird sitting at the dinner table wit family on holidays. try changing ur style but not ur attitude be more open with things around u go meet someone great get ur phone out and look at the girls u have in ur phone or use myspace to find someone i wouldnt recoment date sites because ur not legal yet ur only 17.if u feel like ur into men then go chase men too.but i cant really explain wat ur supposed to do because u want a relationship u got to do that on ur own..get friends and go to a party and just party up get some numbers and in a few weeks call that person and aask if they want to hang out.

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A female reader, nickieausgr Greece +, writes (9 June 2009):

Your feelings are very mixed up, Work out if u wanna be with a guy or girl! I dont think that its ur appereance that scares the girls off i bet u say something really bad... When u hit o a girl u really gotta check out the danger first, try n see if she looks at you a lil b4 going over 2 her.

Now about your "neice" well i wouldnt go there cause u are supposed to be family, if u ur bro finds out itll be real weird & if u guys break up it'll even be more weird!

About the 16 & 19 yr old, u should talk about it with him.

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