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I'm thinking of just giving up on him

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Question - (9 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been hanging out with this guy for 5 months. I brought up us having a relationship. He says,i just want 2 keep things simply 4 now. I decided 2 back off. Then he text me says,guess u must have someone else? I said,trying 2 get over u,in order 2 do that gotta hang out with other guys. He says,why when i want u? So we decided we were gonna start hanging out more, and see how things go. We've hung out one time since then. We still talk every once in awhile through text messages. I've been trying 2 get him 2 hang out. Lately he's been having 2 umpire,so we can't hang out. I really do care alot about him,but i'm thinking about just giving up. I feel like he's just playing games with me. I've tried giving up before,but i always ended trying 2 see him again. What do u think i should do?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (9 June 2009):

To be honest I don't think he is interested in putting in lots of effort to be a boyfriend to you.

If he has been busy then give him a bit of a chance but if he doesn't shape up in a little while then tell him it's not going to work and to stop calling you.

Good Luck!! xx

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