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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010): you must give him a deap throught and try sucking his balls he will enjoy it and he will cum faster
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 see how it works before you congrantulate me and also it helps to have a willy to know how to please one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou are a saint, my dear friend! He's gonna go crazy! :) Thanks!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (13 June 2009):
uncircumcised the "banjo string" joining helmet to penis shaft feels very good when the tongue slides down it (from just below pee hole down the shaft and the area just below, so if you can roll the foreskin upwards and gently stroke your tongue in the area while it is in motion is does cause rapid orgasm (in me and others but not everybody). with uncircumcised be more gentle and play with the skin stretching and rotating it while tonguing the banjo, also at the bottom of the ball bag there is a tiny area of mad sensitivity worth nibbling between your tongue and liops gently(its always on the seam down the middle so follow the line (you will know when you hit it), and the area between the thigh and the genitals (sweaty crotch) is very sensitive to delicate kissing).
delicate kissing almost tickling followed after a long build up of increasing intensity and try multitasking multiple things (when they cant focus on which bit is giving them the most pleasure they lose their cool and drool)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBoonridge McPhalify: Yes I'm in America, but no, he's not circumcised... Any suggestions on that??
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Here is a great sexual information and instruction site:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml
This is the page on giving a guy oral. There is also an advanced page link at the end of this article.
Some guys, including myself, cannot easily orgasm with oral. I almost always have to help my wife get me there and then she takes over again when I am close.
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reader, ashesbaby123  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 you should go deep and use your tongue alot and make sure his penis is really wet and sometimes they like when you suck on their balls... hope i helped:)
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (12 June 2009):
you are in america? so is he circumcised or not?
this is important as what will work on one type night not work for the other.
i have specialist techniques
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reader, dddddddd  +, writes (10 June 2009):
Don't take it too personally. Some guys don't cum easily from oral sex. It doesn't necessarily mean he isn't enjoying it.Keep at it and you're soon enough work out the way he likes it best, and as others have said you can always ask him.If he says your teeth aren't hurting then you're probably keeping them out of the way and he means what he says.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): first tease him by licking the tip and then start.move your toungue from side to side real fast under the penis and move your head really fast and jack him off in the middle(when u need a break in between) and use a lot of spit and then just suck..he will love it.
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reader, daletom +, writes (9 June 2009):
First off, don't assume that you're NOT doing a good job!
I'm one of those guys who has difficulty climaxing from oral sex. I usually have to work at climaxing when I know my wife wants me to cum in her mouth. Although blowjobs have a reputation for being extremely satisfying to guys, I can easily get along without them.
Make good use of the feedback your guy gives you. Some of it may be verbal ("Slower", "That's the place", etc) and some of it is vocal but non-verbal and some of it is how he moves or holds his body. When getting oral sex I am quite responsive to gentle fondling and caresses of the inner thighs, scrotum, perineum and anus. If I can't climax from oral, and intercourse isn't possible, I often finish by embracing my wife and "humping" against her hip or thigh, or using my hands. Actually, the embrace - being held while I orgasm - is a lot more intimate to me than finishing in her mouth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUgh. Thanks so much! :) You guys are awesome. Passionatelynumb, your comments were very very helpful, along with everyone else's thanks. :) I will definitely talk to him about it and see what he wants. I have another question though, he says that my teeth aren't hurting him, but I've talked to guys who say that hurts like crazy! Is he lying to me or... Is he wierd? :P Ha ha.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 Well I figure everybody is different because some girls told me they were good and they couldn't get me off.
What I do is tell them stuff like "Tighter" or "Only the tongue" etc ... to help them out. I never encountered someone who found that offensive.
My suggestion would be to ask him how he would like it.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 You might be doing it to softly. Watch what he does when he does it himself and replicate it.
Men often masturbate to rough so that the more gentle touches of a woman ain't enough any more. If he abstains he will also become more sensitive again.
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reader, rocknroll +, writes (9 June 2009):
It might be possible that what you are doing is to intense and he has some fear what might happen. Being biten is one for a man.
You need to talk to him. This is a part of having a partner.
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reader, passionatelynumb +, writes (9 June 2009):
 First of all some guys have a hard time coming that way so it may just be thats the way he is. I know I usually have to finish myself off, but I do really enjoy it as its a very different sensation than a handjob or intercourse. The best tip I can give you came from a Women's Health magazine. My partner read it and tried it on me. I about hit the roof it felt so good. Next time you go down on your boyfriend, wrap your index finger and thumb around the base of the shaft of his penis and gently pull the skin down. This should have the effect of making the skin at the tip a little tighter, bringing the nerve endings to the surface thus intensifying all of the sensations. The other thing is just time and patience. The more he gets used to your style of giving head, the more he will relax and the faster he will come. Plus it can take a guy up to 10 minutes or longer for him to climax and a lot of girls just don't have the endurance to keep going that long. So don't feel bad, I'm sure he loves what your doing. Keep it up and he will enjoy it more and more each time.
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reader, melusinec  +, writes (9 June 2009):
use your tounge alot and dont be afraid to deep throat.
also try andsuck the tip while gieing him a hand job aswell
apart from doing them its all down to expeirence
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