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writes:I am 17 years old. I was in a relationship for almost 3 years. My ex-boyfriend was good to me in the beginning and the last year was bad. He tried to cheat on me with my best friend, he said mean things to me - he hated to touch my hand, he couldn't stand to be around me. We only seen each other at school and rarely out of school and he said he was spending too much time with me. Well our break up ended on his part and I was heartbroken.. I begged him not to leave and he did. I gave up and he wanted me back. I was strong at first and now I want him back and he wants to be with me but my family will not allow it. They think it is unhealthy for me. He had hurt me so bad at the end of our relationship I had to go get on depression medicine. How do I cope with this? What do I do? He says he has changed but my family will not forgive him. I feel like I can't live without him. Do I move on? If so how? PLease give me some advice!!!! :(
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reader, confusedgirl91 +, writes (10 June 2009):
confusedgirl91 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all of your answers.. It has helped me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): I am with your parents, they shouldn't let you go for that prick again.
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reader, yanza  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 im so sorry to here what you ahve been through with this guy but he sounds no good. you have to remember at the end of the day your family have a unclouded view of him and can see that he is never going to change.you deserve kindness and respect and some one that will be there for you when you need it most and i really dont think he is that guy.keep looking and you will find the right guy he is out there and you will find him.i hope this helped and good luck = }
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Well to me it sounds like your family has a good head on it's shoulders.
Wake up and smell the jerk.
Respect yourself enough to know what is wrong and hurtful for you and what is right.
That's all I can really say.
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reader, holikdad +, writes (9 June 2009):
Stop thinking that this is the only guy for you in the whole wide world. There are millions of others, and trust me some of them will treat you like you deserve to be treated.
Unless your parents have problems that you didn't provide they're only looking out for you. Listen to them, they've already been down that road before.
Find another guy, one who doesn't treat you badly.
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