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female
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*ittleun
writes: I am 25 and only 5'3 if that, maybe 5'2 that is more realistic well i thought i was short. I have a wonderful boyfriend, we have been together 6 months now and for some reason he is very unsure about his height. He is 21 and he is about the same height has me when we are barefoot. When we go out i wear high shoes which are about 4 ins on top. So making me about 5'7. Well that is when people notice how he is shorter than me he tells me all the time wouldnt i rather wear lower heels. I have tried and obviously it makes him feel better when out. I just point out that it is okay when i wear low heels and i am with him but then i seem to feel that one of us should be that bit taller while outside. It is more noticable when we are the same height that we look like a pair of bookends. I dont make him feel that he should be any taller as he is as i like a shorter guy i dont wanna be looking at a tall guys chest.So i think maybe i should surcumb to his feelings and not let his height rule our relationship. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): he is younger than you, so thats why he feels that way.I'm dating someone shorter than me i don't see anything wrong cause i love the way when he call me baby cause even though he is shorter than me i know deep down that he is older by age so I just love it regardless if i'm wearing high heels or not.
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