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writes:Okay last year when I was 15 i had this really hot teacher I didn't like her at first but she grew on me. Now I can't stop thinking about her. I mean I think about her so much that I can't stand it. Every day and night she is always on my mind.I know we can never be together but I think about it all the time. She is in a religion where she cannot divorce her husband and they seem happy plus she has two kids anyway. I had a girlfriend but I could not focus on her knowing that I am in love with someone else. So I broke up with my girlfriend. Even when I play sports I think about her. Nothing I do seems to keep her off my mind. It has gotten to the point where I googled her, found out where she lives past places she lived, previous occupations, her husbands stuff,relative names and I found out that I only live 6 minutes away from her. One day I'm scared that I might walk up to her house and just let it all pour out. I always dream about her so I love to sleep so I can dream. It has been almost a year since I was in her class and now it is summer time and I can't stop thinking about her. Every little thing I do reminds me of her. I always walked the halls just hoping to see her. My heart jumps every time I see her. She doesn't know that I love her because I keep my distance. PLEASE HELP ME I can't take this any more I need to get her off my mind I tried to find someone younger and play sports/instruments. I just want to run away with her and start a new life and I don't just lust after her I love her personality. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDo you think I should see a counselor (not school counselor)?
If I do then how am I going to explain this to my parents without them thinking less of me. Sometime I try to hate her so I won't love her, but that just makes it worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): honestly, i do not mean to offend you, but you sound obsessed.
what can you do? well dont just run up to her and cry your heart out with i love you i cant stop thinking about you my heart bleeds, because thats when she screws up her face all dazed and confused and reports you to the princible skinner.
you want to find yourself in a laughable conversation with her and just say something along the lines of "i just have to say miss.. you really are a beautiful lady", if she smiles and says "awww cute" then thats profit right?
third option is... forget about her. as much as you can not.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (9 June 2009):
 honestly it wont work out no matter how u feel it wont work out..shes married she has kids i dought that she feels the same about u.i'm sorry.wat u can do is go to her house pretend like ur selling something and if she answers the door then be like ohh my hi there i didnt know u lived here or sommething if she asks u to come in then go right inside and just talk to her.thats the best way to deal wit it.cuz u might find out something about her thats gross and u instantly forget about her. if u have any more questions mail me..good luck
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