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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i used to work at a place with my ex boyfriend-we did the buying the house thing together etcat the time i had a low credit score so he took the mortgage in his name but we paid equally towards itafter two years i felt unloved and didnt feel he cared even though i did loads for him. so i left.two years ago he sold the house-he didnt mention it to me-well i hadnt seen him for gaes but it still hurt.anyway my current boyfriend seems more interested in me financially i have low self esteem and keep giving him money in the hope he will love me more-sad i know.he is emotionally cold towards me i feel so unloved he cant even cuddle me.about a month ago i find out my first ex had got married i cant describe the feeling i had-like a knife through my heart when i heard and it has really affected me-i cant stop crying etc-even though it was 5 years agocan anyone explain why and how the hell do i stop feeling like this please im not a bad person-just a bad judge of character thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): I'm sorry you are feeling so low. It seems like these feelings might be quite complicated, so it might be helpful for you to talk to a therapist in depth to find out what's going on.
Sometimes if you leave these things, they can revisit us with depression.
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