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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My girl friend and I have been together for 7 months. Were both 17. When we first started going out it seemed like heaven, then it dulled down, then it had its peaks. Lately for the past 2 months we have been in a frustration/arguing cycle. We will be fine then ill get frustrated about something. Or vice versa. We broke up last month for a week and a half. We both really love each other, now im ready to go to the next level. I love this girl, but sometimes I feel like im forcing myself to like her, like when she was new I would kill to see her, now its like okay what ever. Were both too nonchalant about things. Things between us are sometimes too "what ever". Last week she said she doesn’t trust me because I had a picture in my phone of another chick (not total nude). my girl friend is the best she truly puts up with my B.S. and loves me the same, but I sometimes cant just "get over" how I feel about something she did ( like when she decided to braid a guys here in my presence as if it was that important to do while I was there ). Sometimes it’s hard for me to just forget things and move on, I NEED HELP. She is a strong young lady, very opinionated. So alot of times we don’t agree with things, and just start arguing, alot of times I get angry and say things that I truly don’t mean, almost 99% of the time I don’t mean the mean things I say. I need advice on how to control my temper and watch what I say. Because im tired of making her sad/cry. Yesterday she told me she wants things better between us or back to normal, I AGREE. she said she wants more dates, more communication, more of me checking on with her, more attention, less arguing, less frustration, and more letting her be selfish( idk what that means )BREAKING UP IS NOT A OPTION WITH HER, I PROMISED ILL NEVER DUMP HER AGAIN. SO ONLY HELP ME IF YOU HAVE ADVICE ON MAKING THINGS BETTER. THE SUMMER IS HERE AND I WANT A BEAUTIFUL NORMAL/HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP PLEASE HELP
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