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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'll try and keep this short...all of the men who have expressed physical interest in me are way older than I am. I just turned 21. Between age 19 and now, the guys who have flirted really persistently with me have been 41, 33, 28, and 36...and that's just the ones whose ages I happen to know. The rest were all way older than me also.I'm normal weight, normal looking, ordinary hobbies. I don't dress like a slut or go out to bars or anything. If anything I'm a bit of a tomboy. I'm not sure why only older guys seem to find me attractive, or what I can do to "scare them away." Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): I'll try and keep this short...If you don't want to attract flies don't be a sweetener. You'll have to curb your smiles and flirting.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (9 June 2009):
I think it happens to be a coincidence that older guys are hitting on you all at once. Here and there the older guy will come along...and when I say older, I'm talking about some that are almost my grandfather's age! Just talk to them, have fun with them! But when they start getting a little too "friendly" mentioning them being your dad's age, like whoha said, will probably help them get the hint without being rude.
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reader, whoha  +, writes (9 June 2009):
You sound very unassuming which is a lovely characteristic which makes me think guys your own age are probably in awe of you and to scared to approach you.
I think older guys are probably just abit more confident in their approaches to you.
You could try laughing at the older ones and tell them they have no chance or tell them they're just like your Dad.
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