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writes:Im in a huge dilemna, I am currently 6 weeks and 6 days pregnant (tomorrow will be 7 weeks). I got my period April 22, 2009. I went on vacation from April 26-May 3rd 2009. On that trip, I ran into an old flame and slept with him every night from April 28th-may 2nd, 2009. He didnt use a condom and he did cum in me every night. On May 5th, I got back with my bf and we had sex that day only, but he pulled out. Now im worried and need to know whos the father most likely. I really feel strongly that its the "old flames" from the vacation and so does he. I need to know if Im right or not!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): do you even want this child? i am hoping you are not one of these "good decent women" who would want to pass of paternity as someone else's child to your bf- plse thibk hard and be really clear, do you want a baby to be born when you are not ready, sexually promiscuous, and not even sure who the daddy is. if it is the other guys would you then expect your current bf to be this childs father. you know that you are not ready to be in a monogamous relationship and you will sleep around again, is it fair to bring a child into this world with so many negatives?
hard questions, but time to face reality.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 Get a paternity test when your child is born. But to be honest what made you think having unprotected sex was a good idea in the first place?
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reader, natasia +, writes (9 June 2009):
 It is of course absolutely most likely that it is the old flame.
If your periord started on the 22nd, you would most likely have had your fertile 24 hours (24 hours when the ovum is available for fertilisation) on 1-5 May, and most likely around the 2nd or 3rd. If your old flame was ejaculating inside you from the 28th to the 2nd, there is ample chance that live sperm of his were there to meet the egg, and even more likely that your ovulation would have occurred in happy response to him being there, and you would have ovulated as soon as possible (this has happened to me three times - three pregnancies resulted!!).
If your bf pulled out, I'm sorry, but I think his chances are so slim as to be practically unlikely.
My money is firmly on the old flame.
Don't know if that is what you wanted to hear - I guess it depends on why you split up in the first place! But looks like you missed each other!!
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