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writes:can i have your opinions...i have been dating this guy for 2 months and he ignored me three weeks ago wen we all went to a festival...tho sorted it out, but it hurt my feelings at the timenow, he told me that he and a bunch of others were playing dares, were he shifted 3 guys once or twice each and a girl.am i overreacting i mean it was only dares, but he still cheated and i was really hurt about itplease help i dont no what to do! many think i should dump him...any opinions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Don't feel hurt over a jerk. They're not worth the pain. And yes, dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Its simple DUMP HIM the trust is gone what's left to think about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Dump him! You can do much better, and you have plenty of time to do just that! I mean, no one can be inside your situation, but it just seems that no boy is worth that. There are many who won't cheat. Even on a dare.
You need to teach others how to treat you. Don't stand for disrespect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): yes dump him, what he did wasnt nice, and he cheated on you there are better guys around, whose to say he wont cheat again?
take care
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reader, rocknroll  +, writes (9 June 2009):
This is a typical age group of immature games. Not all play them, and not all are aware of these games. It is unacceptable to be playing such games as dares and you have every right to be upset. Not something you want in a partner to kick you to the side; a partner should be immune to such games.
Now like I said, this age (teens) is typical, but even lasts throughout life. Be aware of it, and protect yourself from it.
You are not over reacting!
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