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writes: I love a guy bcoz I always felt that he is very innocent and never can flirt with girls. A year later one of my friends told him that i love him. that time he did not said anything but a couple of days later he said that his first priorty is his career and so he didn't accept even my friendship request. I am an orkut user so yesterday I was searching that boy's name and I found it and when I read his scraps I was shocked. He scrapped lots of girls like hi sexy, hi sweety etc. I cried the whole night thinking that he had time for others, even for my best friend but not even a single second for me. Even my best friend did not tell me that she is his girlfriend and here I am, trying like a fool to gain even his attention. Now I want to forget him but how, I don't know. plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): You are not a fool at all. We have all been there. Believe me, I have been rejected by guys before, and been left feeling mortified!
At first, this will be upsetting for you. But eventually, it will get better. Don't take it so personally. Just because this guy isn't interested, it doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you. There isn't. It is his loss! You have a lot to give to someone, when you meet the right person. It's just not him.
And if he is making you feel so upset...is he really worth your time and effort if he makes you feel like this? I know it's hard, but just hold your head up and tell yourself that you are waiting for someone who really deserves you. I hope this helps. x
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reader, holikdad +, writes (9 June 2009):
With friends like that who needs enemas? Sorry, little joke there. You're young, if the age you listed is correct, quit obsessing over one person.
Why is it that all young people today think that there is only one right person for them in the whole 6.5 billion population? There are other guys, keep looking, this guy sounds like a looser anyway and you don't want him to drag you down.
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reader, yanza +, writes (9 June 2009):
this guy sounds like a complete and utter jerk. a real user of womenif you have to try that hard to get his attention he is sooo not worth it.stay away from him he is bad news. there are plenty of other guys out there who would appreiciate you alot more than he does.there is someone out there and you wont have to try at all with him go out and have fun dont tie yourself down.i hope this helped and good luck = }
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