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female
age
30-35,
*issEmilina
writes:Dear Cupid,I had vaginal sex a good few months ago but it did not go so well, i started to bleed heavily but i stopped after a few minutes. Iv been afraid to try it since. Am i still a virgin since it only lasted less than a minute? And how do i know if my hymen broke?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 You had pentrative sex therefore you are no longer a virgin I'm afraid. It does not matter about the duration of intercourse, or how good it was for you - basically if a penis was inside your vagina then you have had sex and are not a virgin.
The bleeding sounds like that was your hymen breaking, but it is also possible your hymen may have broke years ago. Activities like horse-riding, gymnastics and using tampons can often break your hymen without you realising. Dont worry about your hymen - if it wasnt already broken before you had sex then it sounds like it is now. There is no real way of telling if it is still there but I think you can safely assume it has been broken now.
I'm sorry that your first time wasnt great and I hope it gets better next time!
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (9 June 2009):
 I think the bleeding may suggest your hymen is broken!
And as you have had sex whether it is for 2 seconds or 2 hours, you are no longer a virgin!
But do check out Satin's links below!
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