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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I had met a wonderful guy on line, he is a regional manger, used to travel a lot, finally we got the chance to meet for dinner, before the date he texted me what cuisine that I prefered and he offered to pick me up from my office after work for dinner, so sweet of him right!Throughout the whole night, he talked a lot, about his job, his family, his plans for future eg. will be getting a house for himself etc..As for myself, perhaps I'm a bit shy towards a strange guy, I didn't talk much, but laughed a lot at his jokes and kept smiling, I guess at that moment, he enjoyed my companion, he didn't even what to check his office cellphone when there's few incoming msgs.He texted me after sending me back home, "thanks me for meeitng him for the dinner".The next day he called me, he told me that he wanted to loose some weight and wanted to control his diet etc...due to his health problem, he told me he is going to be busy with work, athought he told me he will call me the next day but he didn't, i guess probably he was too busy so I texted him 2 days later, at that time, he was having dinner with his family outside, he called me 1 hr later when he reached home, this time again he talked about his exercise schedule, I encourged him to keep it up, exericise is good for him this and that etc...It was our last contact since 3 days ago, he didn't text or call me after that, I wonder was it because our communcation wasn't too good cos most of the time he was the one sharing his info, at my part, I hardly share my info to him but I've tried my best to talk more during our conversation unfortunately, I guess he mind and get tired of trying further??Could anyone tell me what is going on, I won't contact him, if this is the signs show that he is not into me, I shall move on but I curious why he didn't contact me??Thanks,Kinky
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reader, Chippy2  +, writes (9 June 2009):
I think he is all about himself and has low self-esteem and doesnt care what you have to say. That is a big RED FLAG to me. I seriously dont think you can meet ANYONE on the internet and make it work or be safe. I tried. Disaster! Look for someone else and hope he doesnt text you! Good Luck. I am sure you are way to intelligent to think you could enjoy the treatment of you he is displaying from the start!
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reader, rocknroll +, writes (9 June 2009):
It is only 3 days, and it is a very new relationship. Don't get paranoid just yet or ever. Life is a struggle, a juggling act, we all deal with it differently. If anything, invite him to a treat/dinner on you.
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