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writes:What should I do. There is this guy i'm friends with, and i've liked him for a long time, i think about him often. But i don't know what to do, i have been ignoring my feelings hoping they would go away as i'm quite shy n stuff, but they haven't, if anything they've gotten stronger.None of my mates from where i live know i like him, but my one from where i used to live does know and she says that i should, subtly flirt, and act matey, and tease etc and other stuff. Or should i just tell him outright, and if i do should i do it on facebook/msn so that he wont get embarrased and neither will I.what should i do?
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reader, mb47977  +, writes (29 June 2009):
I'm having a hard time! My guy friend is no longer talking to me so I stoped texting him. I use to be able to talk to him about anything bothering me and now he doesn't answer a simple hi text. My cousin and her boyfriend invited me to go to six flags but they invited his friend whos a guy. I'm being set up with a guy that I never met. I really don't know what to do and I don't want to seem like a sissy being afraid to go on the ride. What do I do? I love my friend Rob and now I'm being set up. I feel like I want to cry because the guy I like doesn't talk to me and this guy I don't know will be around me all the time. I wish that I could tell my friend how I feel but I'm shy. Its been very hard not talking to him for a couple of days. I miss him so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): I have alot of friends like you who are shy. I would also suggest that you flirt with him a bit, make sure it's enough for hims to notice and then see how he responds. If it's a postivie response I would tell him. Though you can do it over facebook/msm I wouldn't recomend it. Here how I would tell the guy when I was shy (I'm not shy anymore). I would tell him everything as if it was another guy I liked and then ask for his advice. Then do exactly what he said. Usually they know whats coming because when you describe the "guy" your describing him. It's always worked for me and then nobody get embarrased. I hope everything works out for you :)
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