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writes:Hey.I just wondered what you all thought of relationships through university, or college etc. Do these relationships tend to work? The reason I ask is because I like a guy [who likes me back] and we would like to start a relationship, but the thing is he is moving to university in September, and I don't know whether that means we would have to break up. I can drive, and the university is roughly 45 - 50 miles away from where we live at the moment. The problem is though that I will also be at university [a different one to him, and i'll be living at home] from Monday to Friday, Saturday i'll be at work, and therefore Sunday is the only day i'll really get, but I need to see my family etc aswell, which I was planning on using Sunday for. Has anybody got any advice or stories that they could give me? I don't want to not go out with him, and then think of him as 'the one that got away' or spend the rest of my life wondering what life would have been like if we never went out with each other. I really like him. Please help. xxx
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reader, Tbonex  +, writes (28 June 2009):
 Good luck, if you two are serious about each other enough, I know for a fact it'll atually work.
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reader, Tbonex +, writes (28 June 2009):
I have been in a situation similar to that before. I realized it all depends on the two people. One person could feel one way about it and think it'll work while the other may not be able to handle it. It sucks when you may really like or love someone and they're far away from you. Just remeber, sometimes long distance helps a relationship. Also, 45 to 50 miles can't be all that bad. Not if you two are really serious about each other. I have been away from my love at least 400 miles but now we are married. I took the initiative to claim my Queen and she said yes. Now we live together in a house and everything is good so far. Most of the time, but it's cool. Don't really know if that helps you any? You two should talk about it if you really haven't and get a better understanding of how you two want it handled. There should always be time for a significant other or loved one in life. No matter how far away you are apart, Love in one's heart will connect two people together so that they're never apart fom each other:)
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