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writes: I need a bit of help the girl I am with at the momentI dont know how long we have been together but i know when i told her i still liked her on the 3rd of april 2009(I have been attracted to her since college, she started in september 2004 and we have tried to get things off the ground in college, the first time we were too shy and nothing happened, the second time we met up in the after noon and went to a pub we had a drunken moment, i stopped at hers for the night but nothing happend the following morning there was akwardness and we ended up with different people soon after) Now since i told her i like her we have sepent very little time apart i think this equates to about 2 weeks in total but when we are apart we text. I feel like i can trust her with everything, when we kiss i get butterflies and when we have slow sex it feels realy meaningful.I now feel as though I am falling in love with her. Am I getting the feelings too soon or am I getting feelings mixed up?any help appriciated
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reader, AskEve +, writes (28 June 2009):
It sure sounds as if you are falling for her. I wouldn't say you were getting feelings too soon. When you take your relationship to the next level (sleep together) then a lot of different feelings emerge. You spend a lot of time together and text a lot too which will help you both continue to get to know one another. I would say continue to get to know one another. Do things together as best friends as well as lovers and let her know that you're there for her if she ever feels down or wants to talk.Good luck!~Eve~
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