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male
age
36-40,
*rivia
writes: Question for the girls.What games do girls play and why do they do it. I have this girl who gives me an impression that she's game but when I act on it, she doesn't seem keen and doesn't initiate or start anything unless I do. This is extremely frustrating and was wondering is there a valid reason for her behavior or am I pushing her too hard too fast? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, trivia +, writes (29 June 2009):
trivia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks girls for the advice, however i've recently found out that she has infact hooked up with some guy over the weekend, not sure why but obviously it wasn't her being a challenge, she obviously wasn't that interested even telling me she was the day before. You girls can be very confusing and frustrating ;) Thanks though
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female
reader, josephy +, writes (28 June 2009):
we like men to start thing ( call me first, aske me out,....and play hard to get lol.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): Seems like she wants you, but wants you to work for her attention. Like she is testing you as to how much you want her. Its normal behaviour for younger women as the thrill of being chased just as men love to do the chasing. She may be waiting for you to initiate things as she doesn't want to appear too forward. In dating, women are torn between appearing too prude or too slutty, so she is measuring what you want from your advances IMO. Give her a chance and have fun with it.
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