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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my girlfriend for over 2 and a half years now in what has been a very loving relationship for most of the time. However last year she told me she had fallen pregnant and I was so deeply upset and mad at myself for letting it happen I didn't know what to do. This resulted in me getting completely drunk off my face and I kissed another girl. I quickly told her the same night I had done it because I have always been an honest person and wouldn't keep a thing from her. I was so upset for doing this that I suggested that we not continue our relationship, but after a lot of tears we eventually worked it out and she wanted to stay with me. Ever since then, whenever we go out and have a drink it all comes back to haunt me. She always picks a fight about it and threatens to cheat on me to get back at me and this has been going on for far too long now, about a year and a half. It's got to the point where I am left with nothing to say when shes barraging me with insults about how disgusting I am for it and I am completely tired of it. I want to stay with her because she is amazing and makes me feel great most of the time, but I just want to know can she ever forgive me? And if not, what can be done so as to stop her from getting like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): this is not what you want to hear- how about not going out for a drink to bars?? instead, create the atmostphere at home, buy the alcohol, dress up sexy and just indulge in each other. it will save you both getting upset with each other.
she is still hurt and is still upset. when you two are calm and perhaps in a better mood try talking rationally with her. but plse note she may erupt into a war of words. she needs to cut you some slack, one kiss and you stopped , right ???
if she wants to get one over you, next time in the bar, when she talks about cheating, tell her to grab a guy kiss him in front of you, then it is OVER. you kissed another, she has also, now what? back to your happy lives with your beautiful baby.
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