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36-40,
*iola29
writes:A man fancies you. The man pursues you, a lot. You fancy him. You enjoy the attention and you go out with him. He tells you he loves you and has never felt this way before. You fall for him, you talk about the future. Then one day - literally out of the blue he announces that he can't be with you any more. So it's over, you are seriously upset, but you put on a brave face and carry on, you start to feel yourself get over it. And then one night, you, him and your mates are all out, and everything is fine, you feel a little for him, naturally, but not much, and anyway he's flirting with other girls, you've told yourself to move on, so it's ok and you don't really care about it. But on the way home he appears at the end of your street ... and kisses you...3 times. So ...wtf!?
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reader, Viola29 +, writes (30 June 2009):
Viola29 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou are all totally right.
I deserve better than this!
Thank you so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): If it was me, I wouldn't even have let him get to the kissing part. I would have told him to where to go before that!
This must be difficult and painful for you, but this guy clearly doesn't have any respect for your feelings. I would have suggested trying to find out why he ended things, but now that he is openly flirting with other people and then trying to get back with you, I think the answer is there already. He is just playing around with people, and doesn't seem to care who he hurts in the process.
I would advise trying to stay away from him, because I think he is someone who will probably just continue to hurt you. You really do deserve more than that. x
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Pfft, don't pay him any mind. He made his choice when he dumped you and now he's trying to get back in your pants. Tell him to kick rocks and forget about him.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 June 2009):
 The f: Tell him to get lost. He knows you still have feelings for him, and will make abusive use of that for as long as you allow him.
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