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writes: Hey Aunts, Well I really need help with this fast,my twin brothers best friend is madly in love with me and i dont like him back but i also dont want to distroy my brothers friendship.Also im in a new relationship with a really special guy that im head over heels for.Like sometimes this dude will come over when he knows my brother wont be their.I've clearly stated that i do not like him but the guy wont quit and it's tearing me and my brother and me and my boyfriend apart and its so anoying.My boyfriend is very protective of me because we were bestfriends before we acutally got together.It takes alot of self-restraint to stop him from hitting him because he very open with liking me like he'd be asked who do you fancy and he would say me or he'd walk up to me and hug me and try to kiss me and i'd end up hitting him because my brothers beginning to think he only hangs with him because im his sister.I dont really know what to do because im clueless at realationships.I really need help with this because me and brother are like best friends as well as twins and i dont want him to be hurt.Thnx So Much XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Tell your brother what's going on. Your brother's friend is being very disrespectful by not quitting when you asked him too. (Like that's going to make you fall in love with him? As if!) Your brother may be a bit hurt but it's his friend's fault, not yours. If your brother can't get him to quit, tell your boyfriend too so you'll have two guys looking out for you.
Good luck.
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reader, Giorgioarmanicus  +, writes (28 June 2009):
One question: Did you flirt with him any time? Because if you flirted he is only reclaiming the logical response of what YOU did.
If you did that then tell him it was a mistake and that you want to forget the flirt.
If you didn´t do anything then the guy is a psicopath and you, your brother and your boyfriend have to reject clearly this guy from your lives
Giorgio Armanicus
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom +, writes (28 June 2009):
Just tell your brother to talk to him and if he won't listen go up to him and tell him to get over you and to get a girlfriend already. If he still won't leave you alone tell a school councler or securaty. This ya girl, peace
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