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writes:I am too shy to ask this but I really need help, well I am 18 years old, female and I don't know anything about sex because no one around me seems to wanna educate me sexually. Can everybody please explain to me what to do the first night you lose your virginity? I really want it to be perfect, can everybody please share with me any tips, anything would be helpful now!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno am not gay
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reader, Tbonex  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 You know what? You're absolutely right HereToHelpx; it shouldn't matter to ME if she's gay or not, and it really doesn't. SY does have good advice so I'll agree on that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): Tbonex, why would you hope that she's not gay? That shouldn't matterSY has given good advice I suggest you follow that, and definately read the article she gave the link to. Make sure you are well educated and know ALL the consequences before you do lose your virginity.
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reader, Tbonex +, writes (28 June 2009):
Well, it's many things you can do the first night with sex. For one, make sure condoms are available, the last thing you need is to get a STD or something first time having sex. Secondly, when you do: do what you may want to do to the person or let him/her help you. I hope you're not gay, but I don't know. Trust me, it's not difficult to do sex unless you really don't know what you're doing. First time I did it I didn't really know what to do but knew what I wanted to do. Wasn't allowed to do everything, but I must have did fine. I wasn't stopped. maybe look up info from the library or look into sexual education. Not telling you to look at porn or anythng but whatever floats your boat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): I'm not sure exactly what you want to know but here I go!:
Well.. the penis goes in the vagina.. let's see what else..?
Ooo! CONDOMS! use protection! sex=babies and stds. Make sure your partner is std and disease free. Has he been tested? It's always a good idea to make sure.
Have you used tampons? Do you know if you have a hymen and if you do, do you know if it's broken? If you do have one and it is not broken, then it will probably break the first time you have sex. You mat have heard this referred to "Popping the cherry."
If you become secually active, you should invest in other forms of borth control, which hopefuly you will be provided more info on that. I'm not a pro at all the birth control methods.
I do know however, that the pull out method is NOT a method. During intercourse, your partner(male) will release precum and although it does carry as high of a risk as full ejaculation, there are sperm in it and it can get your pregnant. SO you should not let him be inside of you at any time. For that and for std purposes..
Um... If he cums (ejaculates, organsms) then do not touch the sperm and then make contact with anything expect soap and water.
DO NOT let him convince you that you don't need a condom. Some people don't use them when they're caught in the heat of the moment. But you DO need one. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Oh.. DUH I just remember Satindesires artical on this. I'll give you the link and you should read it. It's long but very informative. Sex is more than jsut fun andn feel-good. It's a responsibily and can lead to DEATH..
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html
Take care of yourself.
~Sy.
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