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writes:I'm 19 years old and a lesbian. We have done all the kissing aspects but want to move it onto the next level... sex. We have talked it through and are positive about it, we've searched the net but can't find anything! How do you have sex with another girl and have you got any useful tips?
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reader, natalieejanex +, writes (12 February 2011):
 There really isn't a right or wrong way to have sex for any sexuality. watch lesbian porn? even though its acted out and they're not really enjoying it, you will get the general idea.its also good to know your own body before adding somebody else into the mix. if you can make yourself orgasm or cum then you are more than likely to know how to make your partner orgasm or cum. basically practise on yourself.fingers can be used, tongues, lips, toys. so. just play around and experiment but don't expect your partner to do all the work, you gotta move and do something to make it fun and exciting. have fun :)
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reader, chelsea shopland :P +, writes (28 June 2009):
 Lesbian Couple A may want to engage in some mutual masturbation and some oral sex, while Lesbian Couple B may choose to engage in shared manual sex and genital massage mixed in with some role play, and Lesbian Couple C may decide to do some big-time snuggling paired with strap-on play.
There's really nothing heterosexual couples can do that lesbian couples cannot: even vaginal intercourse isn't exclusive to heterosexuals, when it's something lesbian women want, as it can be done either with hands or with sex toys. That said, intercourse usually isn't seen as "the" sex the way it can be in many male-female partnerships, given that a majority of women don't find intercourse all by itself that satisfying, but plenty of hetero couples have, by now, clued into the fact that intercourse shouldn't be the main thing on the menu, too. All the things most people think of as sex -- making out, frottage, manual sex, mutual masturbation, oral sex, vaginal intercourse, anal sex...you name it, lesbians can also do it.
Figuring out what it is exactly we do with any given partner isn't some script we follow, or determined based on what sets of chromosomes or genitals are in the mix, it's about exploring our unique sexuality and theirs, communicating, experimenting, and varying what we do, and how we do it, based on mutual wants, needs and preferences.
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