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male
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41-50,
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writes:Ok recently I started talking to this woman. I find her very charming and funny. but some things about what she says to me have me a little confused. She tells me she likes me and we talk about dating but the other day her tone nearly did a 180. she now keeps telling me she likes me but she doesn't want to hurt me. she says she wants to protect me from her and that she's a "destroyer" and doesn't want me hurt. last night we talked and she said maybe I should put her in a friend group for now while she works things out with her. I know she has a few others on the hook she has told me such. she's never really lied but hasn't been as truthful as she could have been, thinking I don't realize it.My feeling on it is that she isn't really into me like she is saying, and she knows I really am. Does anyone think my feeling that she doesn't want me real or am I just reading to much into things Reply to this Question
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Well i think her warnings should be taken seriously, she's obviously done it in the past and sees you are a nice guy and doesnt wanna hurt you. But at the same time, i must admit i have used that one to steer away from guys i wasnt into all that much. I think you should take her advice though and remain friends for the time being, maybe hang out and see how it goes. Dont overthink, let it be.
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