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writes: My boyfriend who i don't get to see very often and who i miss a lot tells me today that he misses me when i'm nice but doesn't miss me when he thinks i'm nasty to him.I miss him all the time how can you miss someone only sometimes depending on the circumstances\. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Legioness +, writes (3 July 2009):
Easy, when someones being nasty to you, you really just think 'pffft!' and rather forget about them for the time being so to not wind yourself up about the situation. When that someones being all sweet and lovely again then of course you're going to be thinking about them and thus missing them.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (3 July 2009):
i suppose when you're nice he thinks it's great and remembers you all happy and smiley and all the little random things you do to make him feel good.and when you're nasty i guess he'd rather you have space alone and time alone so he knows you need to cool off so i am sure he does miss you but in some ways he knows you'll be left alone to cool off.Does that make sense?like when you have an argument with someone you always spend time alone gathering thoughts and such so maybe that's what he means.Hope this helps x ilovebowsandcherries x
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