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writes:My boyfriend just told me that he has had sexual fantasies about a few girls, two of whom I was already extremely jealous of, but he said they were one time things and for only about thirty seconds. He also told me that he never masturbated and thought about them. Is he lying? He said he felt extremely guilty about it, and he even teared up because he thought it would kill me. I asked him, and I want honesty, so is he trying to make it seem not as bad as it is?
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reader, AW355484  +, writes (3 July 2009):
I wouldn't worry too much about what your boyfriend dreams about, nobody can help what they dream about and its just random thoughts and maybe you mentioned them during the day and consequently he had a dream about them, i have dreams about girls and some of them have been sexual, but dreams are dreams, not reality. In future just tell him to keep his dreams to himself, especially if he knew it would upset you.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (3 July 2009):
 Honestly, why do you care? He is not with them. He is with you. You are the one he chooses to be with every day. Fantasies are just that - fantasies. Unless he is trying to take action with these girls, don't worry about it and focus on what you two have together.
Good luck.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (3 July 2009):
 i think it's fair you get jealous because you want your boyfriends to feel you're only perfect to them!and maybe he realises that hence he feels so bad but what you must remember is that they are just dreams and not real he said he never masterbated over and it was a silly one dream thing anyways.i understand us girls get insecure because guys build up model images of there "ideal" girls and we feel we have to live up to that standard but he loves you for you and it was just a silly dream :)hope this helps hun message me you want to talk further :)x ilovebowsandcherries x
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