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Given up friendship for love.

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Question - (3 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2009)
A age 36-40, * writes:

I am 21 years old and im dating my best friend's ex girlfriend. I knew for a long time that my best friend was cheating on her but never knew enough. Fortunately i fell in love with her but was in a dilemma of keeping my friend's trust or saving the girl's life, I chose the latter. I didn't tell her I was in love because she was still with my best friend and also she had fallen in love with me. I tried to get rid of those feelings by looking and trying to fall in love with someone else. But I kept going back to her. I love her so much and have given everything up for her and she appreciates that.

I want to know whether I have made the right choice by giving up on my friend who is a cheater and a pathological liar who I have lost all respect for.

In addition we both have the same circle of friends please advice me I really need your help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009):

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Thanks guys your ll are the best.Please tc

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A female reader, Renee okc United States +, writes (4 July 2009):

Well you made a choice and it sounds like it has paid off for you if you have a great girl and relationship so why are you worried about what your loser friend thinks he apparently didnt want to treat her right and if he was cheating he kinda deserves what he got what goes around comes around get over thinking of him and if you have to get a new group of friends he isnt worth the stress good luck to you both and move on and be happy. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE FOR YOU AND HER AND THAT IS WHAT COUNTS

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