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writes:Yesterday night after I got off from work I went to a movie, and after it was over I texted my boyfriend saying I'll stop by his house since he was just getting off work. Well I was planning on having sex with him before I left but when he got back from work he was really tired and in a bad mood. So I backed off a little bit and didn't really push the idea of sex. I thought I was being nice just letting him be since it was 12:30 a.m and he had to get back up at 6:30. We went downstairs to his room and talked for a few minutes, we laughed and he seemed fine. But the next day when I came to pick him up for work he tells me how angry it made him that I was "playing games" with him, and "teasing" him by making him think he was going to get some and he didn't. I told him I didn't mean to, that I was sorry, and that he looked tired so I didn't try to do anything. He was still a little ticked, but we made up. During our little argument though he tells me to just go home after work instead of picking him up and spending the night at his house. He said to come over the next day, but I'm wondering why he still doesn't want me to come over even though we made up. Is he still mad? I don't understand why this is all my fault. He didn't give me ANY indication that he wan't to have sex. I even ASKED HIM if he wanted to and he said he was too tired. What should I think? I can understand him being a little upset, but I really think he over reacted.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 He clearly had a really tough day and as he got home after midnight and up again at 6am he was grumpy, irritable and unable to think clearly. In this situation I wouldn't read into his responses too deeply. Wait and see how he is after a really good sleep and I bet he'll be back to his usual self.
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