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writes:hi everyone.. i`m spanish, so if i make mistakes,please excuse mei`m 17 years old and i fell in love with a guy who`s 34.i think he might like me too.i`m so confused , i don`t know what to do.i`ve never been in a serious relationship before, but this guy..i think he could really love me today he asked me out.. i didn`t answer him yet.my parents would kill me, if i told them that i want to go out with a guy who`s 34 years old..please help me !should i go out with him ?should i tell him about my feelings ?the only thing i know is that i don`t want to lie to my parents..
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom  +, writes (3 July 2009):
Don't do it you may have all these feelings but you are still young you need a younger person to share your love with and he probubly did it more than you so he could have a STD and when you go to collage you don't want an old boyfriend and he may just be using you or you could end up pregnet how you ganna explain that to your parents. This ya girl, peace.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 By the way, your English is really good.
I'm a Spanish teacher but I'm studying to be an EFL (English as a Foreign Language) teacher. If you have "dudas," perhaps I could help you.
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (3 July 2009):
By the way, your English is really good.
I'm a Spanish teacher but I'm studying to be an EFL (English as a Foreign Language) teacher. If you have "dudas," perhaps I could help you.
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (3 July 2009):
Hola chica,
A good rule of thumb is that if you have to do it behind your parents' back, it's probably a bad thing.
You should tell your parents the truth. Perhaps you could introduce your friend to your parents. Some parents would flip out over the age difference, but they *may* be more accepting if they meet the guy and get to know him. At least you'll have their trust, whatever happens.
You're 17, in a year you'll be 18. I understand that in Spain you're treated like an adult at 18. Tell this guy you like how you're feeling. Tell him that you care for him but don't want to break your parents' trust. It's not like you're putting him on hold forever, or indefinitely. Your feelings are reasonable.
There's actually a song called, "Wait for me," and I believe in it.
I hope things work out and that he waits for you. If he's worth it, he will.
¡Que te sea leve!
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