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writes:HiI met this guy while on a school trip together, and we kept in contact since then. I developed a little crush on him, and when I told him he said he did like me back too, but wasn't looking for a gf since he was so close to moving away to uni (im a year younger than him).Since then we were cool and we were planning on hanging out during the holidays (planned for tomorrow). We kept in pretty good contact through FB but since we were so busy with exams it was a bit disjointed. But we always replied to each other. However, last week I found out that he got a girlfriend. A girlfriend who lives in America, is younger than me and only became friends with on FB about a month ago. He knows i know about this relationship and has been avoiding replying to me. What do I do? And was he really playing me all along?*btw*: we both live in England.
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reader, marietomates  +, writes (4 July 2009):
 This guy sounds lame. Does FB mean Facebook? If so, what kind of a guy gets a 'girlfriend' in one month over the internet? I'm sorry but that's just ridiculous. If this guy really wants online love with someone who lives across the atlantic ocean then let him! You could find someone who wants to have a relationship in REALITY. And if he's going away to uni anyway, good riddance! Find a local guy who'll treat you right and appreciate the girl he's got! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): Maybe he was trying to let you down gently by actually lying and it all backfired on him. If he already has a girlfriend, just try and let it go. There will be others you will like and you will open the opportunity of it being mutual.
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reader, DebbieLovesYou +, writes (3 July 2009):
 Well im not no expert but i think you should just try to forget about him, i wouldnt say he wasnt playing you causz he really didnt try to get with you. althoufh he did make a big mistake by not telling you he was taken. Just try to forgte about him and find yourself a more honest man for yourself.
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