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writes:I was with my boyfriend for a year and we made the huge mistake of living together to early and about a month ago we started fighting and i moved out. After i moved out things got a bit rough but we still managed to talk a and see each other regularly but it just wasnt the same. He seemed sweet one minute then distant the next and told me he wasnt sure if he could get past all the hurtful things we said to eachtoher and the stressful time we put each other through. A couple days ago we sat down to talk and he said that he feels guilty for making me wait for him to make a decision and decided to end our relationship.We work together 2 days a week at a bar and have alot of the same friends so i knew it would be hard but remarkably i feel pretty free and at peace now. But he has been calling me or just comming up to me randomly at work and asking how im doing and being really nice. We ended on good terms (for the most part) he was sad i was angry, he said he loves me and i could see it in his eyes, and i thought we just wouldnt talk for awhile (make it easier) but during the breakup he told me how he still misses waking up with me and having me around (my picture is beside his bed). so what does his eagerness to keep contact mean? Does he just feel guilty for leaving me or does he want to be "friends? Or does he still love me and maybe think he made a mistake? What are the signs and how can i tell? Hes always been so cold and rude to "ex's"- one of which we work with (we were friends b4 we dated) so what makes us any different and so recently after he broke my heart?Please help!
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 it sounds like he is unsure of his decision if he's acting like this.he might be needy, but if your broken up he shouldnt be telling u these things like he misses u, thats just rubbing salt to the wounds.dont listen to his talks. he's made up his mind not to be with u and u deserve some peace of mind.good luck!
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