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writes:I have recently broken up with my boyfriend. I am not sure why but he has stopped ringing,texting and stopped talking to me.I feel as if everyone is against me, I've heard people talking about me and making fun out of me. I don't know what to do. I feel alone and am really upset. I just feel like crying ,the only people I have are my family and a few friends. I just want to make up with my boyfriend and I know he wants this too. But how? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): You don't say what people are saying about you or making fun of you for, or whether they have a point in your opinion.
It doesn't sound like he wants to make up if he is totally ignoring you - sorry. Just let him be. If he wants to see you he will make a move. But don't hold your breath.
At least you have family and friends to turn to - lots of people haven't. Go out and enjoy yourself instead of wasting your time on someone who doesn't sound interested. You never know what is round the corner.
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reader, misscafc +, writes (3 July 2009):
i do understand were you are coming from breakups can be very hard if you love the person, try contacting him again ut do not pester him because this will push him away even more just text him and suggest a date or some time together, as for the people making fun of you they are just pathetic, i no its hard but just ignore them in the end you will see that you were right, and if you want to cry then cry its good for you to let it all out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): Honey, then make up with him! Write emails, letters, call him, text him, be persistant. Or just walk up to him in the hall any say, "We need to talk." He'll come round soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): If you love your boyfriend and want to be with him then yes go back to him.however if you dont want to be with him and just feel the need to be close to someone i suggest as hard as it might be dont get back with him.you`ll basically be just stringing him along and you and him will be hurt all over again.im sorry you feel alone at this time and the way people are treating you.all i can suggest is going out and meeting NEW people in pubs and going out with these few friends and have fun! go to clubs,parties,restaraunts,anything! just dont think about being alone because you arent after all.as you say you have family and even if it is a few friends.i hope you feel better
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 It sounds like you both need space. You have not said what the build up was towards this. Something must of happened. Distance yourself for a while and go out more with friends nad family. Let him ring you.
Good Luck!
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