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*RVIND94
writes:i was wondering what other people thought about this. For many years me and my older cousin(female and 17 years) have been REALLY close.we talk each other often about sex,life and that sort of thing.Is stuff like this normal for first cousins? By the way i do love her not only as a cousin but as more than a cousin. I always fantasized to have sex with her.one day when she was at my home and i said to her that i want to have sex with her and she said that "do you think is it possible" and she said that would not do sex with anyone else than her boyfriend whom from she had a breakup because of us and she don't know about it but she is normal and was not surprised.one stupid thing which i had done was that i told her that i seduced the other first cousin.and later both families had controversies about something but not regarding us and after that we both are not able to meet and even talk to each other.i was wondering what advice anyone had.please help me.sorry for my English.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): im in the same situation except i am a girl but my situation is more difficult but with you 2 i say you should go for her cause i can tell she wants you the same way
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): This is ironic. I am struggling with the same situation. I am totally in love with my first cousin, and we also talk weekly or email and she also knows that she has the same feelings, but I think being so close it is difficult to openly say lets make love. As I am writing this I am struggling to tell her how I actually feel in my heart, but I hope we can come to terms with this and be together for an evening, so I can tell her to her face. Her husband passed away a few years ago, and when we do speak, you can tell in her voice she is lonely. I don't expect having sex the first night but at least She is aware of my feelings, and hopefully she will feel the same. Good luck
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 well having feelings for a cousin i think is natural for some people around the world. some people even marry their cousins and find the whole thing natural.close friends discuss every aspect of life together so its not unusual for cousins too. dont jump into having sex with your cousin, u have seen that it tore your family apart last time.good luck!
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reader, apathyslastkiss  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 well Arvind, you might lose the best friend you've ever had, But you might gain the greatest lover.
I'd say, slip her your spicy samosa, and experience that kind of passion with her!
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