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writes:One week after the girl i really liked broke up with me i met this other girl, ( at this point i didnt care about anything i had lost a very special person and just didnt care) she was a gangster girl a bit crazy and when i met her i was kinda one too so i just didnt care so i went with it we talked for a few weeks before you kniw we were together i never even asked her out(i guess we were together since we were both lonely) well after a while we both developed feeling for each other were officially going out. Ive left the gang life more or less but lately im having problems with her,(sometimes i go back and think about my ex and threres no doubt i still like her) but my girlfreind i tried to get her to change her life for the good but hasent shes still goes off smokes weed partys hard( these partys i dont like because everyone gets drunk or high so theres no telling what my girlfreind does and i really dont trust this guys) well lately ive seen her with her best frieind hes a guy, i never had a problem with it but now ive noticed that they are very close perhaps a little too close, i meen shes wayyyyy closer to him than she is with me makes me suspicious and wanna question her, and when she tells me what she does she has anger problems goes off on people and well i dont like it that she has this bad life... I dont know how i feel about her im just very confused.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 well to be honest i think you got with her a bit too early after your break up i mean you clearly still care for this ex girlfriend of yours as you've said you lost someone special you never really gave yourself time to get over that and move on at your own pace.
you met this girl more or less straight away and got with her without realising.
if you feel suspicious of this then perhaps you should end it have sometime alone to yourself and pull yourself through the break up that clearly has left you open wounded.
hope this helps hun x ilovebowsandcherries x
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