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*alyda
writes:Ok I am confused. What does it mean when a guy calls you often, let's say 3 to 4 time in a week, tells you a lot about his life plans and secrets but never asks you out. I have known him for almost 2 months now and he makes me feel like we are close by talking to me all the time about his personal stuff. Our phone calls last 2 hours sometimes!He made the first move to get close to me but now all we do is talk on the phone or see each other at work.In conversations he says that he does not have time for a relationship. He says I understand him and that I am a great person but every time we plan to go out something else come up and he cancels!Then he apologizes and keeps calling me, maybe all he wants is friendship, in that case why did he ask me out to the movies the first time? And by the way it never happened because he was tired.Should I ignore his phone calls from now on? I kinda like him but if all he wants is friendship then I need distance to sort myself out first because he sends me all this confusing signals.Someone please clarify this for me I am lost!
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 I would say that he likes you except for the fact that he keeps cancelling your dates, it shouldn't be so hard just to go to the movies together. Sounds like he just wants someone to talk to.. and talk to.. and talk to.
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reader, J1E1S1U1S  +, writes (3 July 2009):
Well it sounds like he likes you too, but what you should find out first is if he goes out with any other co workers. If not then he prolly has the intentions of getting close to you but is afraid of ruining the relationship because he enjoys the time you all spend together. Just talk to him about it and see what he is feeling, in the end it will all work out for the best.
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