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He says I'm hotter than his wife and we have sex, what should I do?

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Question - (3 July 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *mmaxbaby writes:

We see each other whenever we can, he calls me beautiful and says im hotter than his wife and hasn't seen anyone hotter than me.

He speaks to me nearly everyday and everytime we see each other we have sex in his car, i really like him and want him to leave his wife for me, hes a lawyer and he said he gets paid alot and wants to take me shopping, i dont know what to do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009):

You may very well be hotter than his wife but he's not going to leave her for you. Most the thrill of cheating is the cheating. Its the thrill of being desired by another woman and the thrill of closing the deal just to see if you can. And believe me once you have a taste of the pursuit its not an easy habit to break. Its very addicting. So while I'm quite sure he is attracted to you, it won't last. He will need to satisfy his urge to hunt.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009):

i think we are all wasting too much of energy on emma baby. emma please go play your childish games elsewhere. i know you have no respect of yourself, and i also know that you just want to rile us. so please play your twisted games with others.

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A female reader, always.you United States +, writes (6 July 2009):

always.you agony auntOK everybody is right but didnt need to be so harsh about it..ive been the other women and sweety all it does is end up in heartbreak and tears for all three of you..seriously..you need to tell him too choose one you or her..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009):

Girls like you are the reason why innocent children grow up in broken homes, and become broken themselves.

Don't be selfish. Leave this man alone. Are you not worthy of your own man?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009):

I agree with kaylagal. This is quite discusting what you are doing. You know he has a wife, you are having sex with her husband who she would really love and care for? Why would you do that to an innocent woman?, if she found out she would be absolutely torn into peices do you think its ok to do that to someone? you need to end it. You are apart of something so cruel, how would you feel? the chances of him leaving his wife for you are very low. do the right thing and dont interfere with other peoples relationships, if you have any sense at all.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009):

WOW! How old are you? You're BANGING some jerk that's married, got a wife possibly a kid, He's NOT GONNA LEAVE HIS WIFE for you, you're just something on the side. He's gonna tell you what you need to hear (that's what lawyers do right?) to keep you comimg back to his car for a quickie while his wife is at home. He's NOT gonna leave his wife for something on the side and if he does, what makes you think that you are enough to keep him from getting bored with you and finding something on the side. Wake up and smell the coffee

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (4 July 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntTROLL POST!

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A female reader, kaylagal United States +, writes (4 July 2009):

kaylagal agony auntHow old are you? You sound like you are 12yrs old, no offense.

You are having an affair with a married man. He has to tell you you're hotter than his wife so you can keep giving him the goodies. If he has to tell you, he gets paid a lot of money, he probably doesn't. But that's not even the issue here. He has a wife at home, and maybe a family. You are just a girl on the side he's using for sex. He might take you shopping, using the family's hard earned money. If he does take you shopping, take that as payment for the sex you're giving him.

Why would you want another woman's man, how would you feel if another woman did the same thing to you.

Do the right thing and move on with your life.

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