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writes:I don't understand what's going on. My boyfriend has a few issues with confidence and things of this nature. Recently they have become a massive problem and he said that he may need a break, but he doesn't even know if it would help him. So at the moment i've told him he can have all the space he needs when he needs it, and that i'll be a lot more sympathetic, because i usually find it frustrating knowing myself there is nothing wrong with the way he looks, or how funny he is, which is his biggest problem. But recently when we have been getting more sexual together he had actually told me he regrets it now. He never used to, he just suddenly started to after he said he possibly needed a break. I don't really understand why he might regret these things, and i wondered if it could be explained to me why this is happening. He says "at least i told you" but to be honest i'd rather not know because it's quite upsetting to know he regrets being with me in that way now. I don't know what to make of this.
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (4 July 2009):
Apparently he isnt ready for the responsibility of a sexual relatoionship and maybe now feels guilty you need to move on with your life he has issues and needs to see a shrink or maybe he is really gay and just didnt know it or was in denial whatever his problem is it has nothing to do with you , he is putting it on you because he doesnt want to deal with the real issue which is in his little head you are to young to be burden with someone that doesnt know himself feel me please girl move on i am not saying go out and get a new man take some time for yourself get to know you and leave the drama behind he needs help you cannot provide to him and the faster you realize that the better off you will be.
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