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writes:my boyfriend and i have been on and off constantly for 2 years now. we keep breaking up because he's not 'touchy'...he wont even hold my hand or kiss me or put his arm around me or anything. we text each other like nonstop and he always tells me how badly he wants to make a move and how he'll try next time...but he never does! its soo annoying. he even says he loves me...it bothers me because if u love me...u wouldve at least tried to make a move by now! how can i get him to not be so scared in person and actually do something? im pretty shy myself when it comes to this sort of stuff...should i try to just make a move myself?
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 Yes, definitely make a move on him. Kiss him, touch him, take his hand, tickle him sometimes! I've got to say, though, that if this is constantly bothering you and you're always breaking up he might not be the guy for you.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 Its been 2 years and if he hasn't been touchy feelie...so why are you still with him?
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reader, laura585 +, writes (3 July 2009):
Yes! Next time you two are walking beside eachother grab his hand! I'm sure you will both enjoy at least that much physical affection. You already know he wants to from his texts so you wont be doing anything he is uncomfortable with.
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