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Is it normal to get turned on thinking about attractive guys I don't know?

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Question - (3 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay I have kind of a weird question for you…

So lately I have noticed that when I am turned on and I start to pleasure myself it takes a long time for me to hit my high because out of habit I start to thing about my ex boyfriends or guys I know who care about me…which use to drive me crazy but now it doesn’t do anything for me other than make me go into deep thought. Well finally I decided to try thinking about attractive guys I don’t know to see if that did anything for me; which it did.

Basically I just want to know is this normal or am I abnormal? Its really bothering me so I figured id have to get to the bottom of it.

Thanks =)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009):

I do the same thing too - I think about stuff I'd never do in real life, with the sorts of men I'd never be with either, just to turn myself on when I masturbate.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009):

lol no its normal. i do exactly the same thing. :]

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