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writes:Well I am a 17 year old girl and in March of 2009 I Met this wonderful guy. Everything was great. He told me that he wanted me to be the mother of his children and he liked me more than any other girl. Then he started listening to his friends who were saying that I had sex with another boy. He asked me about many many times and I was getting tired of answer his questions. So we stopped talking for about a 2 months. And I couldn't stop thinking about him no matter how hard I tried. Its this feeling like he is the one. When I finally seen him 2 months later he still had all of the same attraction to me. We were texting each other and calling each other. But after 2 weeks it stopped again. And now I'm feeling the same way. I really want to be with him. And I know he wants to be with me. I want to send him a text message and tell him how I feel do you think this would help and get us back together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): what the hell? everybody has a right to have a past! i know i do,some of which i would change if i could as most of us would but you learn from your mistakes. what happened between you and someone else, was between the TWO of you, and nobody else,period! you need to tell him to take you for you and tell him talk is cheap and he liked you before he started listening to rumores of you BEFORE the two of you started likeing each other,so what the hell does it matter if you banged some other dude,it was before his time. like i said,everybody has a right to a past,and if he dont want somebody with a past, he needs to start hangin around the elementary school,cause its not a teenager he wants to be with
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (4 July 2009):
now i must be reading wrong what the hell is going on he is choosing to listen to his friends I didnt hear you say ya'll are a couple so why does he care what you did or didnt do you need to check his friends b/c it could be a case of them being jealous of ya'll friendship/relationship and honey if he cant trust you and doesnt believe what you told him then he isnt worth your time at all now is he and then to keep playing games who needs that sometimes guys are stupid and i dont want you trying desperately to be with him and him making you jump through hoops dont get me wrong whatever info his friends are giving maybe what they heard and they are telling him that but he needs to man up and say ok she may have slept with the other guy but that has nothing to do with me and isnt my business but then you should be prepared to move on dont waste time with someone who wont even believe you when you tell him something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): If it's true that you had sex with another boy and he can't cope then you are not right for each other. If it isn't true and they said it is, then they are crap friends. But he chooses to be with them whatever the case.
I know it's hard to be philosophical when you have feelings for someone, but they have to be two-way and people can feel for each other but know it won't work. Better to find out and move on and find someone more suitable for you if this is the case.
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (3 July 2009):
Its one way forward but you need to accept and change what went wrong in the past if you have any hope of a future.
Firstly never let what another says wruin what you have, i dont feel your heart was in it the first time round as you would of fought a lot harder rather than giving up so soon. Sometimes you only realise what you had and what you want when its gone. You still have the chance so grab that while you can, dont forget the past just learn from it and move on. Everyone has issues from the start but you need to work together to get through them, dont be so quick to let go of what you want.
Best of luck
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